This isn’t about wanting more, it’s about wanting choice

For a long time, I thought wanting more meant I was ungrateful.

I have a great life. A career. A loving family. Stability. People I care about.
I know how lucky I am, and I still do.

But somewhere along the way, another thought started to surface:

What if this isn’t about wanting more… but about wanting choice?

Choice over how I spend my time.
Choice over how long I keep working in the same way.
Choice over how much energy I give — and where.

It wasn’t dissatisfaction. It was awareness.

Awareness that time isn’t endless.
That energy shifts.
That financial decisions made earlier, or avoided, start to matter more.

I realised I didn’t want to reach a point where the only option left was to keep going because I had to.
I wanted the freedom to choose, to slow down, change direction, or lean into something new, because I’d planned for it.

That’s when the questions started to change.

Not “What should I do next?”
But “What kind of life am I actively creating?”

This is the space I’m exploring now — and inviting you into.

Not to rush.
Not to panic.
But to look clearly at where you are, what matters, and how you want the years ahead to feel.

Because living well isn’t about having everything.
It’s about having enough freedom to choose what matters most.